Honeymoon preamble

Plus, my 2c on whether having a boyfriend is embarrassing (Nah)

Nov 12 • 

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October 2025

The sluttiest mile on the West Coast

Marina Green offers sweeping views of the Golden Gate Bridge, Alcatraz, Marin—and, apparently, some of the city's hottest singles.

Oct 26 • 

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Sex has always been weird. AI will make it weirder.

I went to a lecture on the future of human intimacy.

Oct 11 • 

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September 2025

My birthday is tomorrow.

Plus, advice from Matthew McConaughey, AI tech for parents, and the perks of making out.

Sep 27 • 

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The marriage proposal, debunked

It is not a spontaneous act of love and commitment

Sep 19 • 

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Relationship advice from the '60s and '80s: outdated or pertinent?

I interviewed my mom and grandma. They told it as it was.

Sep 6 • 

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August 2025

"Find someone who will do and marry them."

Sounds like settling, but it's not.

Aug 29 • 

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Oui Did It: The Wedding Recap

Plus, AI boyfriends, penis filler, and "weaponized incompetence"

Aug 22 • 

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Hating on men is in, but do resist.

New format! Check it out.

Aug 15 • 

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Meet the creator making it cool to love on San Francisco

Stef Anderson talks mantras, burnout, and building community in the city she now calls home.

Aug 7 • 

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‘Not the boys on the yacht!’: Inside a women’s club fleet takeover in Sausalito

A dispatch from Meet You There SF’s boating meetup

Aug 2 • 

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July 2025

TFLD3: Mentors

With or without one, we are flecks in the wind. But they help.

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